Reporting Abuse?

[Gustein]

I'd like to know, what should i do in this situation.

I was playing my game, properly, like "most" of the other players do, until it came to this.

Since yesterday, a player named BASTA, stood in front of the dungeon, bugging other players in broken english, asking for free Gold, items, equipment, and etc.
Most people ignored that, but i thought, it could be a case of spamming,
so i told him to stop, and he started replying saying things like: "I report u" "i going to post you on forum, haaahaaaa".

I said goodbye i told him other people would report him for that, and i believed the problem to be resolved at that.

Soon after, i decided to meet up with some people at Magic Rooms, when another player by the name of FrostyFace decide to add me as a friend and talk to me on private chat, then he started threatening me with a harsh words, some sexualy related, and a possible report, if i send a report to Mirror Realms.

Then i decided to send an actual report to the game staff, and decided to post the picture on this forum, since the site recomends to take a screen capture of it.

Sadly i just opened my PG window after sending the written report to find the chat filled with this kind of stuff, and the two of them gone, but i hope the names help.

I would just like to know, what to do about it?

[Gustein]

They simply don't stop, and i really think that the way they're behaving towards it so insistently is pretty rude, to say the least, it must be against the conduct rules.

[frostyface]

The half of what you said is much overacted. I can see you posted it in 'nice harmless mood' like you did nothing. I must admit, well done on that. You're reporting yourself, you know? We did not spam or anything, do you know what is spamming? I really sent you a friend request then I kindly asked you, using the magical word 'PLEASE' stop insulting players, not with harsh words. Have patience on new players, don't say them bad words. By the way have fun with 1 HP Seriously. You posted this because you were angry because I warned you in a friendly way? Would be nice if you don't disturb Mirror Realms staff with that, too. Thank you.

EDIT: And lol, I just read you said something like I was talking you s*xual related things? Where did you get that? And where is that picture?

[Gustein]

I don't remember the "please" part, n'or the "friendly way", you added me as a friend twice to threaten me with a report, saying that the moderators are your friends and were going to side with you, defending the other player, possibly knowing that he was at least spamming, and you want me to feel bad about it?

Don't think that because i'm a new player, or because i don't have the "good equipment yet", or because you're important in this forum, i'll let this slip, you're hidding stuff you said, and i'll not go without seeing at least you admiting that.

[frostyface]

You will be happy if anyone slips your actions here.

[Gustein]

I'm a newbie in this game, but not a newbie in most things, and noticing how known you're in here, i think you're not only being abusive in the game, but abusing of the trust people of this forum have in you.

I might even get my account closed, but other people will definately see what you're doing, people whom you've done the same thing will show up, and then things will change a bit.

PS: I re-uploaded the picture, presenting you with both the threatening, and the sexual connotation, where you insinuate that you question my masculinity in taking actions.

EDIT:


Try to defend him now, when he assumedly mocked me.

[bagzi]

you post this cause i use Unare Fireball spell???wow

[Gustein]

Nope.

I posted this, since you gave to believe that the spell, would mean a thrown tomato, and so on, to show proof that you were trying to disrespect me.

[Gustein]

[bagzi]

[angelofdeath]

Guestin I think your overreacting to all of this. FrostyFace is good player and holygunner was trying to tell you what the "meaning" of STFU means. BASTA was just playing around when he said the tomato thing. he Didnt mean any disrespect by it. So please stop over reacting to these silly things.

[Gustein]

Those "silly things" can be considered cyber bullying, this is a game!

It's mean't to be fun for people, not to be stressing, i've got to point, that i for 4 hours, patiently tried to get my point across, and explain the situation to him, and every word was replied with a joke, or a suggestive insult,
laughing...I mean, it's even ok when it's two people arguing (and sometimes punching each others heads...) over something, but dealing with 3 people!

That's just unfair, other than the fact i've got no reason to worry if my account get's lost in the process (even thought i only played for a week or so), i just hate when people use the "more people on my side" strategy, it's a deplorable and unacceptable act, at least other people will see this situation as an example, and stop doing it!

FYI: STFU is an abreviation to an extremely offensive phrase, you were reading the chat backwards.

[angelofdeath]

regardless, you do have the choice to stop talking to the players you do not like. Your not going to get along with everyone in this game trust me i know.

[Gustein]

Yes, but i can ignore him, and be unprepared in case he makes something up with his "many friends" and report me altogether.

Or i can try to keep track of what's happening, and try to fix the situation myself, due to the fact that Mirror Realms(or the moderators) doesn't show up during the weekend, since being prepared is never a hassle.

[Wero]

This goes to all players in the game: Always act politely and respectful towards others and dont use offensive languge. Is it really that much to ask? We have enough of such immature behaviour both in game and in rl, no need to make things worse by blaming and accusing each other of small things which then grow into more misunderstandings and long debates.

I talked to Gunstein and Basta and got promises of trying to do better in this field, I dont want to see more of this discussion. The case is closed. As for Frosty, I will remind him again to talk in a polite way to others, he should not have used such words both in this thread and in the game.

Im asking again to try to cooperate and understand each other and put those misunderstandings behind, so that we can all work together towards a pleasant environment for everyone.